Starting school

,This year I have a child doing their final year of school.  I find this so hard to believe as I remember the first year he began.  He was so excited.  I was anxious... Will he like it, what will his teacher be liked, how can I help, do I stay in the classroom?  The questions were endless.  We had done some orientation but it was still a bit scarey.  Together we negotiated the year.  He had a wonderful teacher.  She was strict, but clear, with us newbie parents and we felt a part of the class. 

 Have a think about your first day at a new job, or walking into a new group of people.  What helps - some knowledge, preparation, confidence, a friendly smile - these will help your child too.  Drop them off confidently with a big smile, your confidence will transfer to your child (then meet up with the other Prep parents to express your concerns and try and find answers to your questions). 

A large number of children who begin school this year will be excited but also scared and anxious.  Planning, familiarity, establishing a regular routine and parental confidence will all help in the transition process.  
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Kim Dunn
Psychologist